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Set up parental controls on your child’s iPhone

Follow the labels on your screen one step at a time. You can manage apps, websites, contacts, communication safety and screen-time routines from the parental controls already built into Apple devices.

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Checked against Apple’s current guidance

Start on the parent’s iPhone

These main instructions match Apple’s parental-controls experience in iOS 27. If your screen is arranged differently, do not worry: use the separate route further down this page.

Before you begin

  1. Make sure your family is set up in Family Sharing.
  2. Your child should have their own Apple Account and be included in your family group.
  3. For the iOS 27 layout shown here, update the devices in the family group and update the family’s parental controls.
  4. Keep your Screen Time passcode private and different from the code your child uses to unlock their phone.

Step 1

Open your child’s controls

1Open Settings2Tap Family3Tap your child’s name
Can’t see your child? Check that you are the Family Sharing organiser or listed as a parent or guardian, and that your child’s Apple Account has been added to the family group.

Step 2

Choose what you want to manage

You do not need to change everything at once. Begin with the area that matters most, then return to the list whenever you need to adjust it.

Apps and websites

Set the first practical protections

Downloads and purchases

  • Open Apps & Websites.
  • Tap Restrictions, then Ask to Buy.
  • Turn on Require Purchase Approval.
  • Use App Store to allow or block installing apps and App Clips.

Website filtering

  • Open Apps & Websites.
  • Tap Restrictions, then Filtering under Websites.
  • Choose Limit Adult Websites or Approved Websites Only.
  • Review the Allowed and Blocked lists regularly.
Important: Ask to Browse is part of Apple’s updated iOS 27 experience and works in Safari and other supported browsers. A child can send a request when a new website is blocked.

Communication

Manage contacts and turn on Communication Safety

Allowed Contacts

  • Choose who your child can contact during Screen Time.
  • Turn on Manage Contacts to approve contacts.
  • Keep Allow Contact Editing off if you want new contacts to need approval.

Communication Safety

  • Return to your child’s main controls.
  • Tap Communication Safety.
  • Turn the feature on and talk with your child about why it is there.

Apple says Communication Safety can help protect a child from viewing or sharing photos or videos with detected nudity, gore or violence in supported communication features. It is a safety layer—not a replacement for regular conversations.

Time and content

Add realistic limits—not blanket bans

  • Use Time Allowances to set daily budgets for categories such as games, entertainment and social media.
  • Use Screen Time Schedule to create different routines for school days and weekends.
  • Use Content & Privacy Restrictions for age ratings, Siri, Game Center and privacy changes.
  • Review the settings with your child as their age, needs and responsibilities change.
A stronger approach: agree what the setting is trying to protect—sleep, learning, privacy or safety. Controls work better when a young person understands the reason and knows how to ask for a sensible exception.

Does your screen look different?

Use the route that matches your phone

Another iOS version or mixed family devices

Apple says you can continue using the previous Screen Time layout, or adjust the controls directly on your child’s device.

1Open Settings2Tap Screen Time

Look for your child’s name, or open Screen Time on their iPhone. Labels and the order of options may differ.

Still cannot find the setting?

  • In Settings, use search and type Screen Time.
  • Check the iOS version under Settings → General → About.
  • Use Apple’s guide selector to choose the version shown on the phone.
Choose your iOS version in Apple’s guide

Official guidance used for this page

Checked 19 September 2026. Apple can change menu names and availability by software version, child age, country or region. Use the linked Apple page if your screen differs.

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